Purity dating relationships

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You don’t address racial dynamics much on your blog, but I have a question for you: I’m a very attractive, westernized Asian female in my early 30’s.Fun-loving, outgoing and attract all kinds of men easily.A couple considering marriage needs to weigh many factors.While a difference in skin color should not be ignored, it absolutely should not be the determining factor in whether a couple should marry.This is exactly what happened in Israel, according to Malachi .

However, I’m a little different: though I have dated white guys, I deliberately don’t gravitate towards them because I can’t let go of that Utopian ideal in which one day people truly will be “color blind.” As much as possible, I try to give the “other race” category more of a chance.But why do I feel so defeated in accepting this idea?It’s as if the gravitation pull of the natural dynamics of interracial dating is just too strong for my feeble attempts to want the world to be different than what it actually is.As Martin Luther King, Jr., noted, a person should be judged by his or her character, not by skin color.There is no place in the life of the Christian for favoritism based on race (James 2:1–10).

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